Some of you might remember the times when the original name of this blog was "Frugal and Thankful". And even though I changed that name since, it didn't influence what I believe in. Being thankful is a huge part of how I see life. There are times when the plate is overflowing, and it's hard to find things to be thankful for.
But if you slow down and look around, there are so many things, moments, people, experiences that can fill your heart to the fullest with gratitude... Really, so much in life depends solely on our attitude.
I read a quote the other day that really inspired some pondering here:
We can't direct the winds but we can adjust the sails... In the past few days I tried to put in extra effort to see good in life. And I was amazed at how many blessings I've received.
1. Peace. I'm not going to lie, this is not exactly a peaceful time in my life. There are so many things I worry about, scared of, not sure how to deal with, that it gets overwhelming really quickly. But this past week I tried to find a few minutes every morning to squeeze in some Scripture study and spending time in "sweet hour of prayer". It's not always easy to do with two kids and a hundred and two responsibilities but it definitely brought that peace into my life that I so longed for. Whether religious or not, there are many things we can do to gain extra peace and comfort...
2. Friends. I was amazed at how many friends reached out to me in the past few weeks. Some brought physical blessings -like books on multiples - really made me happy - baby stuff, offers to babysit so we can find time for each other or extra cuddles for when babies are here so this tired Mommy can take a shower. Or this blessing to make our life truly "abundant":
Others just brought hugs, encouragement, extra laughter and much needed grown-up interaction. Friends truly rock!
3. Family. I have to say, I am not on perfect terms with all the members of my or my DH' s family. Some of those relationships have been a bit rocky lately, and not necessarily because of something we've done. But other family members have been such a tremendous help that my heart swells with gratitude. My FIL has helped us with so many doctor's appointments (since I have a lot more of them than ever before), my sister-in-law is always willing to babysit even when she has her own hands full beyond capacity. My other awesome SIL just celebrated her own Birthday but decided to make it a very special day for the kids instead. She and her husband rented a gigantic bounce house with water slides, and the kids had a blast - and Moms a break!! It was amazing!
And of course, my Mom and my sister are such a blessing in my life. The other day I spent more than two hours Skyping with my Mom and we chatted about everything and anything in the world as if the borders and miles between us didn't exist. I wish I could also squeeze her tight through the screen but it still amazes me at what we already can do thanks to some technology achievements.
4. The bounty of earth. And of course, it wouldn't be right if I didn't mention how grateful I am for the abundance that we get from our garden. Just picked this morning:
I don't spend nearly as much time as I should in the garden but it's still blessing us above and beyond anything I can comprehend. Love me some free and organic produce!
So what are you thankful for on this beautiful Sunday evening?
I'm reading this on Monday morning and it's such a lovely post. I'm thankful for a fantastic weekend. 1st, The Dr's that are trying to save the sight in my left eye (had the last of three eye injections Saturday morning) 2nd, My friends' daughter got married on Saturday afternoon and the weather was as beautiful as she is and it didn't rain until late evening. And 3rd, Another friend was 60 yesterday and we got to spend time with lots of friends altogether including some that we've not seen for a long time. It was lovely to catch up. and last but by no means last I'm very thankful that dad and I can look after mum at home so that she doesn't have to go into residential care.
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I am thankful that we got a visit from my two sons today. While we are adjusting well to the empty nest, it's always wonderful when we're all together.
ReplyDeleteWe went for a Sunday evening walk and chatted with so many awesome neighbors and friends. I am grateful for a wonderful neighborhood and ward
ReplyDeleteYou really are an inspiration and I'm so thankful that we found each other. You make me want to try harder at everything.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the lovely inspiration, Lena, and hope things are going well for you :)
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