The "twinkies" officially turned two weeks old yesterday. This week was definitely a roller-coaster. We had days when all they did was sleep and eat, and others when they were screaming their little heads off without apparent reason. It seems like even a little distraction can throw them off the loop. And on Wednesday they had a big one. We had our first appointment with their pediatrician. Normally she wouldn't schedule it for a few more weeks because with both of our boys she would stop by the hospital while we were still there. This time around we had to go in because she doesn't work with our hospital. And it was brutal! We stayed there for almost two hours discussing everything twins, getting them checked, poked, weighed etc. On a good note, Tanya gained a whole pound and caught up with her brother, Alex only got back to his birth weight but at least he's gaining. He's just my lazy one :) She already had her first growth spurt, lost the umbilical cord stump (can't wait until he loses that nasty thing) and, overall, she's usually way more alert and independent. But I know, it's only a matter of days until Alex "wakes up", and then I would be longing for these sleepy days to come back again. That's exactly what happened with my oldest, and then we haven't slept for like a year. Oh, the bliss of motherhood! I'm not going to miss the newborn stage... Even though they are so cute:
The other thing I'm struggling with right now are my emotions. I'm a pretty emotional type, period, and I always get some "baby blues" (who doesn't when you only get an hour of sleep sometimes??) but this time it seems a little more severe. I can actually physically feel the "wave" of emotions coming over me, and that's definitely new. I haven't experienced it as much in the past three days, so I'm hopeful I will snap out of it very soon but I'm sure happy to have my sweet hubby here with me right now to keep an eye on me. I really don't know how I would do it without my amazing man! Meeting him was truly the biggest blessing of my life (and now I might just start crying. Darn hormones...). I do have an appt. with my OB GYN on Monday, we'll see what she says...
On a very non-related note, I'm pretty much done with Christmas shopping. I only need 1 more gift for Hubby's uncle who lives out of state and I need to send a package to my parents that's been sitting in our bedroom all packed and ready to go for almost a month right now. Other than that, we are DONE!! And the best thing is that we stayed within a budget (I do love me some online shopping deals :) and we did not have to dip into our regular savings, let alone pull out a credit card. We added another $100 to what we saved by July, and it covered everything. As I mentioned in that post, most of the money came from the other sources, and I love it. Now I just wish we had the energy to decorate the tree...
And are you done with your Christmas shopping? Did you end up going out for Black Friday this year?
Glad to hear your lovely husband is keeping an eye on you Lena. Keep an eye and look after yourself also - if you are not well you cannot look after the twinkies - so you must look after yourself first. I think you know this anyway, you are so wise, Take care, Amy
ReplyDeleteCongrats to you and your family on the safe arrival of your twins. How are the older two appreciating the addition? Do keep well and don't hesitate to ask for help from family/friends when you feel you need it. I know it's a busy time of year but well being comes first! Blessings to you all!
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear all is well with the babies. I think being aware of feeling blue means that you are doing ok - and feel free to shout help if you need it. Sounds like your husband is a great support.
ReplyDeleteHaving all your Christmas shopping done must be a big relief. You'll have a great family Christmas with the twins and your other children. Enjoy it and take it easier this year - you deserve it!!
I think you're doing amazingly well with your "twinkies" (perfect name for them!) and the blues will pass. It's natural so don't get down on yourself. I'm so glad you have hubby with you for now and that he's a big help (not all of them are so you're lucky!!)
ReplyDeleteNow you are seeing the fruits of your labor in more ways than one. (Pun intended.). All of the planning you did ahead because you knew you'd be very busy right now you are realizing. All of your Christmas shopping done! Good for you.
ReplyDeleteGlad everyone is doing well, except for a case of the blues. I know time will help it a lot but it is still no fun to go through. I can't imagine how hard it is to have twins. Having one baby is hard work at first, but adding another infant and 2 older children has to seem almost like an overwhelming task sometimes. Breathe deep, relax and look at all the beautiful little faces. The newborn phase will pass soon enough and you will adapt to your new and frantic routine
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ReplyDeleteSleep deprivation can cause a lot of the emotional ups and downs. Hopefully it will get better for you soon! So glad you were able to complete your Christmas shopping. It can get crazy, and that's one thing you don't need, right?
congrats Lena! This time shall pass. Vitamin D helped me with baby blues :) May your sleep be multiplied.
ReplyDeleteYou make the cutest babies! It would be so much fun to have twins.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure that the baby blues will pass and when the wave hits just know its normal and your body is just sorting itself out. Its been a rough ride for you.
And great job with the Christmas shopping. I'm done too.
Congratulations on the babies! I imagine you are more than busy. Merry Christmas and a very blessed New Year to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteHi Lena~ Just wanted to stop by and wish you and your family a Very Merry Christmas and a Joyful New Year~ Lynn @ Turnips 2 Tangerines
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